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Chocolate Covered
Chocolate Covered Sweets and Gifts in San Francisco's Noe Valley is the manifestation of its passionate and slightly obsessive-compulsive owner, Jack Epstein. One half of the small shop is dedicated to chocolate, and the other to an assortment of small gift boxes and tins.
The gift boxes are often covered in beautiful Japanese art papers, and the tins-several hundred of them-feature the name of nearly every street in San Francisco (as well as known schools and buildings). He's more than happy to cover the boxes and tins with any image, which is a great way to customize a gift.
Why Travel Now?
It's the era of scary gas prices and the stay-cation, and even though you still have a job, you're feeling insecure and worried about the future. Guess what? It's happened before. Seriously, history shows us that there has never been a generation that hasn't lived through a serious recession. It's real and visceral and so humbling, but don't crawl under a rock. You should still make it a point to live, try new things and expand your horizons, even though your animal instincts might be to hoard food, don't make any fast moves or unnecessary changes, settle for less and stay in your lackluster job/apartment/relationship. Don't do it. Agitate. Congregate. Don't isolate. Rebel, even.
I'm not saying go out and run up your credit card debt, quite the opposite. Minimize your life. Do you really need 200 cable TV channels? Do you really need cable TV at all? (I mean, you can get your news and many of your favorite TV shows online.) Cancel your magazine subscriptions. What about that gym membership? Is it really worth $80/month or could you eat healthier and less, take a few yoga classes and run around the park? Get a better phone plan -- tell your carrier, you are tempted to switch to the other guy. See what that gets you. Borrow books from the library again instead of buying them from Amazon.com. Buy your food from local growers or farmers markets and avoid Whole Foods. Make your own coffee and avoid Starbucks. Put your apartment on an energy diet: it's not just right, it will save you money every month. Give yourself a body scrub with wet sand at the beach, do your own nails and touch-up your own roots with Clairol Root Touch-Up (under $10 and it works so good!) Ride your bike more. Invite friends over for a potluck instead of meeting out at restaurants.
And here's a big one: Stop buying things made in China unless it's secondhand. You'll be shocked at how little you can buy in stores like Target or The Gap, and at how easy it is to find almost anything you want on eBay or craigslist or in your local thrift store. Plus, you probably don't really NEED anything new anyway. In fact, play this game: Instead of buying new stuff, sell your old stuff. Look at this article about people who live with just 100 things, giving something up to get something new, just for inspiration.
It may feel like punishment or going regressing at first because it may remind you of the way you lived when you were 21 and a starving artist. But the difference between consuming less now as opposed to in your salad years, is this is doing with less by your own choice. You are in control here. And with the extra money you have from making these dozen or so little mind-clarifying changes, you can do something significant with your dollars. Something that may change the direction of your life. Like finally taking that trip to wherever it is you've always wanted to go.
There is a very big world out there and you are actually connected to all of it. Decisions you make every day effect people living in India and Vietnam and Israel and Peru (major manufacturing centers). And it you find you're feeling ashamed of how the U.S. is perceived by the world, go abroad and maybe change even one person's mind about how awful Americans are.
Why now? Well, because there's only now. For sure. I mean, you could perish in any number of mundane and unspectacular ways and not have another chance. And it is possible that the economy could get worse and you'll be even less likely to get away a few months from now. And because by traveling you could meet someone who will become your new business partner, life partner, or muse/mentor who could change the course of your existence. And because the feeling of mobility reminds you that you can change, and you can make changes, you can literally move out of the rut you are in. And you will take some inspiration from seeing how other people live, the choices they have, and the choices they make. All of this new stimuli throws your own life and your (relatively abundant) choices into a new light.
Even if you can only get to a different state (perhaps where an old friend now lives and has been inviting you to visit for years), and you have to take a train or a bus, and maybe sit next to someone who is 21 or 71, and pack your own lunch. Go. Go. Just go.
Cathay Che is the MOLI View's contributing editor for Travel & Leisure. She posts every Tuesday and Thursday.
The Road to Hana
As I've said before, glamorous Maui is like the Julia Roberts of the Hawaiian Islands. It's the prettiest and most popular, and for that reason alone, there are plenty of naysayers who will tell you that Kauai or the Big Island is where you are much more likely to find "the real Hawaii." While I also adore both of those islands, it's not really true -- especially if you factor in the remote, green, lush side of Maui and the little town of Hana.
If seeing the Na Pali coast is the seminal thing to do on Kauai, and seeing the erupting volcano is the not-to-be-missed activity on the Big Island, then the equivalent on Maui is taking the road to Hana. If you've never done it, it might seem a bit daunting. While it's only 55 miles from Haiku (the last place to get an iced latte) to Hana, it's an infamously twisting, winding road, causing even the most stalwart of passengers to feel a little car sick (if you think about it, driving on an S-curving road mimics the motion of a rocking boat). Along the route, you never know if someone is pulling over to hurl or merely to snap another stunning waterfall photo.
But if you ask me, it's absolutely worth it. You just have to do it right. Fill up your gas tank to at least 3/4 full and plan for about five hours. While it would only take you about two hours to do the drive straight through, it's much more pleasant if you take it slow and make a few stops along the way. Which stops? Well, a decent guidebook will give you many options: places to swim, waterfalls, hikes, places to buy fresh fruit smoothies and fish tacos. But unless you have an amazing co-pilot, willing to write out crib notes on their forearm, it's unlikely anyone will be able to read from any book during the drive.
The solution is a convenient audio guide to the road to Hana: a CD that narrates the drive like your own personal tour guide. You start the CD at the designated spot on the Hana Highway and off you go. This was a novel idea that has inspired a whole industry of copycats, and they are not all created equal. The one I recommend is called the "On the Road Again" Hana Audio Tour CD. The guides on this one are two local stoner dudes, a haole (white guy from the mainland) called Captain Aloha and a Hawaiian called Uncle Boy Kanai. At times, the narration is like, Dude! Where's My Lunch? It's pretty entertaining, interspersed with local celebrities and musical acts like Marty Dread, Haward Ahia, Kanekoa, Leokane Pryor. But it becomes apparent that what they have a passion for is eating: where to stop for y